I recently received a message full of questions from one of my readers. While I'll leave his name anonymous, this person is someone I was acquainted to years ago. He was legit...really...
Seriously...
Okay, so, the message:
Date:
May 8, 2009 9:02 AM
Subject: Target
Body:
i worked as a cart attendant at Target in 2005. Im no longer there. Ive seen you work at the Grocery side of the store. you seem to be a very hot looking chick with a nice ass. Ive thought about asking you out but was to shy. i looked at your page and it says that your a christian but I wondered since you dressed kinda alternative if somethings can be passible. the bible says alot stuff but it doesn't relate to modern times. there is a way you can keep your virginity without breaking that code. im talking about anal sex or oral sex. please don't be offended just hear me out. Besides your page say anyone can say what they want on your ali's corner page. so with this type of intercourse, women cannot get pregnant and if its done properly it can be pleasurble. So whats your thought on that?
And...my reply...
Dear Reader,
The bible mentions how your body is a temple. How piercings and tattoos are a sin because your body is holy. The way you dress is plausible too. [i.e. exposing too much skin or giving the opposite sex a reason to look at you lustfully] So while I might not dress like a nun, the bible doesn't say I have to. It's all in the way you carry yourself and display yourself.
Secondly, I really don't appreciate your attempt to "compliment" me. "Hot chick with a nice ass" ... ? I don't believe that deserves a thank you for the simple reason that it's not what I want guys to see when they look at me. Rather, I'd like them to see something different about me. Something that makes them want to get to know me for who I am. I'm not drawn to guys who think with the two half brains between their legs, but rather the ones that respect me, my body, and my beliefs.
Also, to answer your other question, my thoughts on "oral" and "anal" sex are the same as my thoughts on intercourse. My beliefs aren't to "justify" them and have the best of both worlds [i.e. be able to "mess around" yet keep my virginity at the same time]. I respect my body and myself, so therefore, my integrity is strong.
The fact that women can't get pregnant while preforming these acts is completely irrelevant. Simply because, the reason I believe what I do is not because I'm afraid of getting pregnant, it's because I think sex is something that's gotten so out of hand in today's world that it's just taken so lightly. Newly weds can't enjoy each other as much as they used to be able to because the magic has already been opened. And high school kids are throwing their futures away by getting aids or having babies that they must now devote their lives to. Sex was made for a man and a women. For marriage. And people have used it and abused it to the point that it's been developed into "just another part of the evening".
Anyways, I appreciate your questions. I hope I've helped you understand a little more about my beliefs. I'd be happy to answer any more questions that should pop up.
Thanks for reading,
Ali
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